Here is a running list of Joaquin's first words.
Aqua
Hot
Truck (ckuck)
Car
Bottle (baba)
Vroom - the sound a car makes
The last three he learned in the last 2 weeks.
Recently he has been singing 'where is thumbkin' in baby words. so cute.
He can also sign several things.
He signs light everytime we see one, which means he constantly pointing out lights.
More, sometimes I want
Milk
Bicycle
Dog
Bird
All done
Wish I could capture a picture of him signing.
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Stroller Racing
I think we had our first toddler tantrum today. It was at a Target department store, how classic. Likely Joaquin was hungry, but in the few minutes he was in the store, he decided he wanted to push the shopping cart. He loves to push strolllers and shopping carts. I mean obsessively loves to push shopping carts.
On our last plane trip, he joyfully spent most of his time in the airport pushing his stroller up and down the long waxed hallways. That was to the amusement of hundreds of fellow air travelers. The stroller appears to be moving by itself because he is too small to either look over the top or even the sides. Periodically he sticks his head around the stroller to get a direction bearing. This and his focus bring laughs. Not that Joaquin noticed. He was pure intent. Drive that stroller. I am sure he didn't hear the folks calling out "hey Mario" as in Mario Andretti the famous race car driver.
However, at Target the shopping carts are heavy and even with his expert stroller maneuvering skills he could not get the cart to budge. His quick frustration was followed by some loud crying and laying down on the floor. The laying down on the floor is the big difference in a toddler tantrum from the crying of the past. That, and knowing the exact cause is a desire inside his little soul. I laughed.
Joaquin entertained himself with stroller racing at the assisted living home of his great grandpa. Here his skill with a walker had competition from some of the residents. They thought he was adorable but perhaps also fearful as his reckless driving can be threatening to an octogenian.
On our last plane trip, he joyfully spent most of his time in the airport pushing his stroller up and down the long waxed hallways. That was to the amusement of hundreds of fellow air travelers. The stroller appears to be moving by itself because he is too small to either look over the top or even the sides. Periodically he sticks his head around the stroller to get a direction bearing. This and his focus bring laughs. Not that Joaquin noticed. He was pure intent. Drive that stroller. I am sure he didn't hear the folks calling out "hey Mario" as in Mario Andretti the famous race car driver.
However, at Target the shopping carts are heavy and even with his expert stroller maneuvering skills he could not get the cart to budge. His quick frustration was followed by some loud crying and laying down on the floor. The laying down on the floor is the big difference in a toddler tantrum from the crying of the past. That, and knowing the exact cause is a desire inside his little soul. I laughed.
Joaquin entertained himself with stroller racing at the assisted living home of his great grandpa. Here his skill with a walker had competition from some of the residents. They thought he was adorable but perhaps also fearful as his reckless driving can be threatening to an octogenian.
Friday, November 27, 2009
Joaquin Walking
Joaquin began walking just 9 days after his first birthday on November 13th. He and I had just flown 6 hours from NYC to San Francisco. We were at home ready for bed after a long day of traveling and he took four or five steps in the hallway. Each day he has steadily walked more since. Sometimes he looks like a little Frankenstein with his stiff legged steps, but mostly he is the cutest thing I have ever seen.
My mom and I took a hike to Tennessee Valley Beach in Marin County on Wednesday. Joaquin also took his first hike, which we captured here.





This last week he has been a little joy. I took a few lessons from Brenda, the lovely woman who watches him three days a week and from my mom on getting him to stay in his high chair. The tips were 1) no having snacks outside the chair 2) be ready with good foods 3)ignore some of the nonsense. After a bunch of meals carefully orchestrated with serial introductions of new foods to keep him entertained. Decoy spoons and bowls to keep his hands busy. And getting in as much food as fast as possible. And switching from a free standing high chair to one attached to the table. And voila, mealtimes are no longer a struggle. So between easy meals, easy bedtimes, fairly easy naps and his joy at any time we play, the days have been sweet.
We had a little rough spot when he and I first returned from a week in Connecticut. Daniel stayed at home to work. When we returned Joaquin was quite happy to see him, but he was also thrown into despair every time Daniel said goodbye for the next week. Joaquin's world would go still for a moment as he took in Daniel's absence. Then his face would crumple with all points of mouth and eyes turned down while letting loose a plaintiff "wah". He'd add a decidedly dramatic and anguished drop of the head to the table or floor which ever was at his disposal. After about a week of such he seems to feel reassured that Daniel will promptly return from any goodbye. However, if Daniel is home, in the midst of playing he will suddenly remember his papa and head directly for his arms.
My mom and I took a hike to Tennessee Valley Beach in Marin County on Wednesday. Joaquin also took his first hike, which we captured here.





This last week he has been a little joy. I took a few lessons from Brenda, the lovely woman who watches him three days a week and from my mom on getting him to stay in his high chair. The tips were 1) no having snacks outside the chair 2) be ready with good foods 3)ignore some of the nonsense. After a bunch of meals carefully orchestrated with serial introductions of new foods to keep him entertained. Decoy spoons and bowls to keep his hands busy. And getting in as much food as fast as possible. And switching from a free standing high chair to one attached to the table. And voila, mealtimes are no longer a struggle. So between easy meals, easy bedtimes, fairly easy naps and his joy at any time we play, the days have been sweet.
We had a little rough spot when he and I first returned from a week in Connecticut. Daniel stayed at home to work. When we returned Joaquin was quite happy to see him, but he was also thrown into despair every time Daniel said goodbye for the next week. Joaquin's world would go still for a moment as he took in Daniel's absence. Then his face would crumple with all points of mouth and eyes turned down while letting loose a plaintiff "wah". He'd add a decidedly dramatic and anguished drop of the head to the table or floor which ever was at his disposal. After about a week of such he seems to feel reassured that Daniel will promptly return from any goodbye. However, if Daniel is home, in the midst of playing he will suddenly remember his papa and head directly for his arms.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Ode to Ice Cream

After a full eleven months without ice cream, I broke my fast of frozen dairy confections (and all dairy cheeses) with a slice of chocolate layered with fudge and oreo ice cream cake with frozen whipped cream frosting from the notorious Ashley's ice cream in New Haven.
Oh it was so good.
I took just a small slice on Andria's birthday as we celebrated her 27th. But she and Quito decided to leave the three-quarters remainder at my mom's house where I am now. That night and multiple times of the day since the ice cream cake has called for me. It's a soft quiet voice announcing how delicious it is. I have answered the call several times each day.
Happily Joaquin seems to no longer be spitting up breast milk after I have consumed dairy. I have been carefully monitoring his progress in milk product digestion. In the last month, I have slowly been trying out bits of cheese or cream to see how he fares. Until this week, large amounts of cheese still set him off. For the several weeks he has been eating goatmilk yogurt with no ill affects. I am so happy to return to the world of cheese and ice cream. I am also happy to have a baby that is easy to feed- with goat cheeses and goat yogurt being fairly ubiquitous in Berkeley.
Monday, November 9, 2009
Agua
Much to my surprise, Joaquin is talking. He first word is aqua. It's undeniable. He says it when he sees a glass of water. When I take a drink of water. He doesnt really ask for aqua but then again water isn't something that gets him excited like banana.
We think he also says hot but he doesnt seem to use that word always in the right content. Maybe he is also also saying "dis" for "this" when he points to something that has struck his fancy.
I am surprised by these words because he does not say mama or papa. I thought it would be months before he spoke to us. Especially because he is really communicating with sign language. Buts thats another posting- coming soon.
We think he also says hot but he doesnt seem to use that word always in the right content. Maybe he is also also saying "dis" for "this" when he points to something that has struck his fancy.
I am surprised by these words because he does not say mama or papa. I thought it would be months before he spoke to us. Especially because he is really communicating with sign language. Buts thats another posting- coming soon.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Happy Birthday Joaquin!

I am not getting to post on this blog as much as I would like. Here is a picture of Joaquin at his first birthday party. I threw a french toast breakfast brunch in the backyard. It was an amazingly warm, yellow sun fall day. The five or so babies played with his toys. Joaquin ate french toast (his favorite food) and worked at turning off the ipod player. There were no new toys for Joaquin to interest him. Maybe a dozen friends without children came to celebrate with us. I enjoyed the party more than any event I have held in a long time.
Happy Birthday Joaquin!
Sunday, November 1, 2009
October cold season
I survived the month of October. Joaquin was sick almost the whole month. The month went something like this: cold, cold with mouth blisters, fever, cold. He was a fussy and needy baby.
I have purchased more cold and flu products in the last few months than Daniel and I combined have purchased in the last decade. I am now a familiar of saline nasal spray. First Joaquin hated having the salty mist up his nose. It took two of us to hold him down and depress the pressurized canister. After going through a whole can, he has grown to like the mist. When I approach with the can he holds his head still in preparation. After both nostrils, I spray some mist into his mouth which is what he really likes.
Fortunately, Joaquin also no longer minds when I wipe his persistently running nose. I wipe my nose first and make funny nose honking sounds that make him laugh. He does a funny imitation of my little comedy routine. From this little bit we do together, he now laughs when anyone sneezes.
October was also a socially busy month. With great anticipation, we held invitations to Melissa's wedding and camp-over and to a retreat to the eastern Sierras in a house rented by my co-worker and new mother, Gwen. Joaquin attended both events a touch under the weather. I enjoyed myself both places but the traveling took its toll on us. We did get some great pictures here.
October also brought Joaquin's eighth tooth. Between the teething (each new lower tooth seems to cause him agony) and the colds, Joaquin ate very little. Just strawberry yogurt and french toast inspired him to eat. I worried that I had ruined my chances at a good eater by too much family-farmed maple syrup and sweet soy yogurt but as the end of October rolled in, with his first birthday and feeling fine, my ravenous little bird has returned. Joaquin happily scarfs all foods well flavored.
Here is an wonderful photo that my friend Dean took of Joaquin as the sunset at Melissa's wedding.

Joaquin is wearing his stunning Creme Bebe sweater from Manhattan, a gift from auntie Clararose.
And a few from the eastern Sierra, outside Bishop, CA.

I have purchased more cold and flu products in the last few months than Daniel and I combined have purchased in the last decade. I am now a familiar of saline nasal spray. First Joaquin hated having the salty mist up his nose. It took two of us to hold him down and depress the pressurized canister. After going through a whole can, he has grown to like the mist. When I approach with the can he holds his head still in preparation. After both nostrils, I spray some mist into his mouth which is what he really likes.
Fortunately, Joaquin also no longer minds when I wipe his persistently running nose. I wipe my nose first and make funny nose honking sounds that make him laugh. He does a funny imitation of my little comedy routine. From this little bit we do together, he now laughs when anyone sneezes.
October was also a socially busy month. With great anticipation, we held invitations to Melissa's wedding and camp-over and to a retreat to the eastern Sierras in a house rented by my co-worker and new mother, Gwen. Joaquin attended both events a touch under the weather. I enjoyed myself both places but the traveling took its toll on us. We did get some great pictures here.
October also brought Joaquin's eighth tooth. Between the teething (each new lower tooth seems to cause him agony) and the colds, Joaquin ate very little. Just strawberry yogurt and french toast inspired him to eat. I worried that I had ruined my chances at a good eater by too much family-farmed maple syrup and sweet soy yogurt but as the end of October rolled in, with his first birthday and feeling fine, my ravenous little bird has returned. Joaquin happily scarfs all foods well flavored.
Here is an wonderful photo that my friend Dean took of Joaquin as the sunset at Melissa's wedding.
Joaquin is wearing his stunning Creme Bebe sweater from Manhattan, a gift from auntie Clararose.
And a few from the eastern Sierra, outside Bishop, CA.

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